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I Am But A Small Voice

10 May 2009 7 Comments

Matt Cheuvront and his new blog series “The Inconvenience of Change” makes my head hurt.

In one (I’m sure, knowing him, late night) posting on his blog, Matt has managed to start a social media revolution. Sure, the members of the young professional generation are always quick to jump on any revolution wagon. We’ve learned from years of “everybody wins regardless of whether anyone scores” medals and games that teamwork is essential. Yet we are frequently getting distracted by the newest shiny thing. This revolution wagon, however, is not just challenging people to team up, paint some posters, chain themselves to something inanimate and then forget about it the next day. Matt, and a slew of other revolution wagon jumpers (myself included, and not just cause he emailed me to write something and lured me with a copy of the book New Day Revolution!) are instead challenging people to change themselves first to be the change they want to see in the world. That ain’t an easy feat for a girl who will hate Johnny Damon til the day he dies for making what was, in “fairness”, a professional business decision.

In a world with very prolific bloggers who think deep thoughts and eloquently pontificate on very heavy topics, I frequently feel like the Jessica Simpson of social media. There was a time when I liked to convince myself that I was a brilliant young mind that would discover the secrets of the world and make life easier for everyone. The magical silver bullet that would somehow unlock the wonders of unlimited joy, health, money, relationships, love, and more. Yet as I told my friend over Irish pints last week, I’m more of a philosophizer than a philosopher.

So, as I prepare to tell people how to reach down into the furthest recesses of their souls to pull out some full and resounding change to affect the world around them, I’m finding that that is a pretty lofty goal to take on. I think that one of the biggest challenges, especially when you get all riled up imagining your Nobel Peace Prize speech or epic documentary screening, is that a huge change does not just happen overnight. Experts, in fact, say that it takes at least 21 days to form a new habit.

Sure, there are small things you can do to make small changes in the world, but when you commit yourself to this revolutionary vision of change, the small changes seem..well…small. And 21 days is a long time to commit to the same change daily. By that time you start to wonder…is this change really worth it? Are these small things adding up? Am I even making a difference?

With all these small thoughts, trifling and witty as they were, I started turning the word “small” over and over in my mind. As a youngster, the chorus I used to sing with learned a song that used to move my heart and annoy the hell out of my brain. The lyrics were simple, the melody catchy (like an ad that gets stuck in your mind and never leaves) and we must have sang it daily for an entire semester. Well over the requisite 21 days of habit forming, if you ask me.

The song, “I Am But A Small Voice” tells of the story of many “small voices,” fueled by a “small dream,” coming together to sing for peace, prosperity and love for all mankind. Whoa! Speaking of lofty goals, change for all mankind has gotta be up there with orange becoming the new pink.

A lot of people over the next month are going to be telling the blogosphere that there is a revolution happening. This is true. They are going to write with big mono-syllabic words on the importance of the long-lasting impact each of us has the opportunity to make. This is also true. They are going to tell you that things need to change, and that this change needs to start with you. This, more than anything else anyone will write, is true.

I am here to tell you, in my own simple way, why.

You need to change because even though you are but a small voice, you are a voice. You are a mind, and a heart, and a personality and a life that can make a difference. You might be able to throw around $2 words or you might only be able to muster a $.40 conversation. And you have important things to say, fantastic things to do and a revolutionary role to play in the change. You must decide where you want your future to lead because if you don’t, someone else will decide it for you. You can’t let your small voice remain unheard.

At the end of the day, no matter how prolific or ditzy or intelligent or silly it may be, each of us will need offer our own unique and small voice to speak as one for the change that will happen.

So the question is, will you raise your small voice? Will you be part of this change?

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  • Matthew

    Elisa – I love this, it adds so much to the overall theme of this entire series. That ONE voice, ONE person, CAN have a huge impact. ONE person can unite a group of people.

    Look no further than yours truly. Who am I in the grand scheme of things? Who was I to you a month ago? A complete stranger? Heck, who am I now? A fellow blogger? But somehow, this relative no-name blogger from Nashville managed to unite voices from India to Argentina, Los Angeles to New York City. All I did was reach out, all I did was have an idea and once I did, I ran with it. And look what that small idea has become across the web.

    What this illustrates and reiterates is the power and impact one voice can have on many. I’m not here to toot my own horn, but if there are people out there doubting what they are capable of, I hope what I am putting together will revolutionize the way they think about themselves.

    That’s what it’s all about, that’s my goal of this series. Not to get people to make HUGE changes – but to inspire people to look within and clear themselves of doubt, stop trying and start doing. Hopefully, when all is said and done, I will have accomplished as much.

    Thanks again for this post, It is an awesome addition to this ‘change revolution’!

  • IrishHeart416

    It’s very true, we have been told that we need to make huge changes to make huge impacts. But when I was in college, the small changes made the impacts. Changing a title on a paper, deciding what classes to make, and being nice to the people I lived with helped me achieve my ultimate goal of graduating. Our generation has been told that we need to create big actions to get big reactions. Unfortunately for these people, they themselves are only making small actions and talking many words. Good post Paco, ya done good again :)

  • Paul Doucette

    What you are talking about has been happening for ages upon ages. People have been making what they view as small changes and eventually they made major differences. The way the changes have been communicated is what has changed. At first it was all by word of mouth, then written word sent to a few people. With the advent of the 20th century, radio made change happen much quicker. The TV in the 60′s saw major change happen almost over night. Now with computers and social networking, it can be almost instantaneous. That does not mean we should stop trying to make change. That is what this world is built on. Man and woman trying to do something a new way or find a cure for a disease and so on. So let’s all keep on trying to change things whether they be small or large. It can make a difference.

  • Lauren Dietlin

    Love this post, Elisa. I am so all about doing “small” things. I find the idea that our efforts have to be “big” really defeating and off-putting. We all do what we can in the context of our own lives and it all matters. Just this week in the New Girls class I facilitate, one of the women mentioned that she took a poem we were reading (Imagine a Woman) and shared it with a group of incarcerated women she meets with who responded to it quite positively. So a woman writes a poem, another shares it with other women, and so on — the poem incites reflection and action, and who knows where that will lead? Small things can create big changes.

  • Elisa

    Thanks for asking me to write it Matt, it is great to be a small voice in a big story!

    @IrishHeart – You are so right. The young professional generation has been raised so much to believe that we are destined for great things and so we start to think in terms of the huge impacts. I’m glad you were able to find small things to make differences in to get to the goals that are important to you!

    @Paul – The world keeps spinning round and round and while things change they still seem to stay the same. The small changes that were made in the 60′s have come to have bad connotation now (Hippies, Protestors, etc.) but the sentiment is still the same. We just have to figure out how to be little hippie protestors in the new climate!

    @Lauren, I love the idea of taking a poem that inspires someone into a place to inspire others. Talk about paying it forward!

  • Katie West/ The Levity Coach

    Elisa,
    Fabulous post and so right on as we merge into this Conceptual Age ( As Dan Pink writes). It is about each of us in our own way thinking about our footprint that we want to leave and whether it is revolutionizing the entire world or creating a subtle ripple effect from where we are, it all has an impact.
    And you know me, I will jut be here laughing.

  • Elisa

    Katie, I just referred you to someone who was talking about Laughter Yoga on Twitter. You are so right, it’s important to find the levity in the things you are doing, otherwise we can get caught up in our own lives and forget the “subtle ripple effect” Thanks for sharing, I’ll have to check out Dan Pink