Comments on: Why It’s Best Sometimes To Kiss And Make Up http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/ Musings and Ramblings from a Not-So-Average Girl Next Door Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:30:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: David http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-208 David Sat, 05 Sep 2009 03:53:19 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-208 I just want to go on record saying that Entourage did NOT coin the term "hug it out" or "hug it out bitch" as I like to call it.<br /><br />Dudes have been saying that for a long time now...or least my friends and I have, before the cast of Entourage got credit for it. I think they just helped mainstream the phrase - that's all. Those bitches. I just want to go on record saying that Entourage did NOT coin the term "hug it out" or "hug it out bitch" as I like to call it.

Dudes have been saying that for a long time now…or least my friends and I have, before the cast of Entourage got credit for it. I think they just helped mainstream the phrase – that's all. Those bitches.

]]> By: Elisa http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-207 Elisa Fri, 04 Sep 2009 21:25:38 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-207 RdGarnet - Haha, yeah, I figured some people could draw the parallels. Kinda called myself out in regards to the anonymity of his post though, huh? :P<br /><br />Jenny - You are like the West Coast me, I love it! The call out was bc I sent someone a DM asking how they came to follow me before following back, not thinking about the fact that he couldn't DM me if I didn't follow him.<br /><br />Isn't it nice to get the communal opinion on crazy? It's especially good when you have someone who will be totally honest and open and like "Yep, you are nuts!"<br /><br />"Hug it out" is probably one of my top 5 most uttered phrase. I feel there is a lot to be learned about life from Entourage and other HBO programming. RdGarnet – Haha, yeah, I figured some people could draw the parallels. Kinda called myself out in regards to the anonymity of his post though, huh? :P

Jenny – You are like the West Coast me, I love it! The call out was bc I sent someone a DM asking how they came to follow me before following back, not thinking about the fact that he couldn't DM me if I didn't follow him.

Isn't it nice to get the communal opinion on crazy? It's especially good when you have someone who will be totally honest and open and like "Yep, you are nuts!"

"Hug it out" is probably one of my top 5 most uttered phrase. I feel there is a lot to be learned about life from Entourage and other HBO programming.

]]> By: Jenny B http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-205 Jenny B Fri, 04 Sep 2009 19:00:36 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-205 First, ouch on the public twitter call-out! What was that for? I can't imagine you doing anything deserving that treatment, but alas, I digress. <br /><br />Second, you are absolutely right that blogging requires a thick skin. I encountered this earlier this week, and had to call another blogger for a sanity check. For some confirmation that I wasn't crazy for feeling bad about hearing people's hurtful comments about me - personal comments based on a public blog post - that I just really didn't need to hear. <br /><br />Third - kudos to you for letting your friend know how the post impacted you, even though it was in jest. Happy to hear that you've since "hugged it out" :D<br /><br />Hugs! <br /><br />Jenny, your biggest cupcake-loving fan (okay hopefully that doesn't literally become true, given that big + cupcakes could easly be correlated). First, ouch on the public twitter call-out! What was that for? I can't imagine you doing anything deserving that treatment, but alas, I digress.

Second, you are absolutely right that blogging requires a thick skin. I encountered this earlier this week, and had to call another blogger for a sanity check. For some confirmation that I wasn't crazy for feeling bad about hearing people's hurtful comments about me – personal comments based on a public blog post – that I just really didn't need to hear.

Third – kudos to you for letting your friend know how the post impacted you, even though it was in jest. Happy to hear that you've since "hugged it out" :D

Hugs!

Jenny, your biggest cupcake-loving fan (okay hopefully that doesn't literally become true, given that big + cupcakes could easly be correlated).

]]> By: Elisa http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-204 Elisa Fri, 04 Sep 2009 18:09:40 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-204 Grace - I love it! Any motto that gets right to the heart of the matter is a good motto by me. :) <br /><br />Erin - Both very true statements. And one of the biggest things is that if someone doesn't open them up to the first, often people aren't able to get to the second. Grace – I love it! Any motto that gets right to the heart of the matter is a good motto by me. :)

Erin – Both very true statements. And one of the biggest things is that if someone doesn't open them up to the first, often people aren't able to get to the second.

]]> By: RdGarnet http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-203 RdGarnet Fri, 04 Sep 2009 18:05:20 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-203 Wow! Great post! Second what Erin said.<br /><br />Now, Im goung to send hate mail to the person who made you feel that way.....just kiddin' ;) Wow! Great post! Second what Erin said.

Now, Im goung to send hate mail to the person who made you feel that way…..just kiddin' ;)

]]> By: Erin http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-199 Erin Fri, 04 Sep 2009 16:13:06 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-199 It takes a big person to admit that something hurt them and a bigger person to acknowledge and apologize for it. Kudos to both of you! It takes a big person to admit that something hurt them and a bigger person to acknowledge and apologize for it. Kudos to both of you!

]]> By: Grace Boyle http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-198 Grace Boyle Fri, 04 Sep 2009 15:57:16 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-198 Each year I grow older I recognize that life's too short to hold grudges. It really is. My motto is, "Cut the bullshit," I can't help but be honest but I do so with tact and then I allow myself to move on, forgive the person and "kiss and make up." I'm glad you could tell this story :) Each year I grow older I recognize that life's too short to hold grudges. It really is. My motto is, "Cut the bullshit," I can't help but be honest but I do so with tact and then I allow myself to move on, forgive the person and "kiss and make up." I'm glad you could tell this story :)

]]> By: Elisa http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-196 Elisa Fri, 04 Sep 2009 04:51:52 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-196 Hey Rachael - Hrmm, I was worried this would happen. My friend already is those things (he has done nothing but apologize, this post didn't help...) The biggest problem was how *I* received and reacted to the situation.<br /><br />It's a funny sort of thing, that we allow ourselves to be so guarded and jaded and we miss out on so many great friends/things/etc because of it. Hey Rachael – Hrmm, I was worried this would happen. My friend already is those things (he has done nothing but apologize, this post didn't help…) The biggest problem was how *I* received and reacted to the situation.

It's a funny sort of thing, that we allow ourselves to be so guarded and jaded and we miss out on so many great friends/things/etc because of it.

]]> By: Rachael http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2009/09/why-its-best-sometimes-to-kiss-and-make-up/comment-page-1/#comment-195 Rachael Fri, 04 Sep 2009 04:29:38 +0000 http://www.opheliaswebb.com/?p=120#comment-195 Elisa, we teach people how to treat us, so by being honest you taught your friend to be sensative, considerate and open. Well done =)<br /><br />PS his OCD thing with pictures is just plain silly ;) Elisa, we teach people how to treat us, so by being honest you taught your friend to be sensative, considerate and open. Well done =)

PS his OCD thing with pictures is just plain silly ;)

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