Comments on: Is It Really Love?

By: Foolish |

Foolish | — Mon, 11 Apr 2011 18:32:54 +0000

[...] You make your choices out of impulse, which is why you continue to repeat your mistakes; why cannot you learn from them? Isn't my opinion reasonable enough? [...]

By: A Case For Love Vocabulary — OwlSparks | Carlos Miceli

A Case For Love Vocabulary — OwlSparks | Carlos Miceli — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 11:53:01 +0000

[...] Here’s my post on The Consequences of Imprecision, and here’s my guest post on Elisa’s Doucette blog about what love means to me. [...]

By: Let’s Tone It Down On The Dream Stuff — OwlSparks | Carlos Miceli

Let’s Tone It Down On The Dream Stuff — OwlSparks | Carlos Miceli — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:33:09 +0000

[...] without putting the required effort to make it happen. I may write, dream and talk about love and how I haven’t “found it” yet, but you know what might actually help? Shaving [...]

By: Love & Books Redux: Part 2

Love & Books Redux: Part 2 — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:56:29 +0000

[...] of what love really is and the fact that movies often color our expectations in the post “Is It Really Love?”. In the comments, readers of the blog discussed how movies shape our desires and [...]

By: The Abstract « Lifeisbutastage's Blog

The Abstract « Lifeisbutastage's Blog — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 00:33:42 +0000

[...] What is love? What is fresh? What is success? We each see these ideas differently, so it’s imperative that you get clear and define them so that you’ll be able to recognize them when you see/achieve them. How else will you know them when you see them? [...]

By: Tweets that mention Is It Really Love? | Ophelias Webb -- Topsy.com

Tweets that mention Is It Really Love? | Ophelias Webb -- Topsy.com — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 16:04:21 +0000

[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Grace Boyle, Monica Wright, Scribnia Spinks, Jenny Blake, Susan Pogorzelski and others. Susan Pogorzelski said: Absolutely loving the conversation sparked by @CarlosMic over at @opheliaswebb's place: (http://bit.ly/cjviNy) No pun intended. #allyouneed [...]

By: Carlos Miceli

Carlos Miceli — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:15:26 +0000

Not only regarding your personality, but what you truly want. Do you want to have fun? Travel? Have great sex? I wonder if love, whatever it means to you, includes all that. Maybe love is not the best objective. .-= Carlos Miceli´s last blog ..Love Is Irrelevant =-.

By: Elisa Doucette

Elisa Doucette — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 15:29:56 +0000

Doni – So true, how can we be fair to others in matters of the heart when we aren’t fair to ourselves. It is really in knowing ourselves and more importantly accepting that that we can truly begin to let others love us. Which I’m learning is a HUGE part of loving in return.

By: Elisa Doucette

Elisa Doucette — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 15:24:12 +0000

Nichole – That was one of my favorite lines from the post too. And I think it is the crux of the matter when people seek out things based on this romanticized concept of “love.” And all the people who gave up the things that were important to them because they were “in love” and settled into a relationship for safety/fear/ignorance have set far too low a bar for the rest of us.

That’s when love becomes irrelevant…when we make it that way. The best thing any of us can do is accept reality (the ups and the downs) and exist within it. Hopefully with a love all our own.

By: Doniree

Doniree — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 21:10:10 +0000

I like the notion that knowing yourself is much more important. I know myself better this year than I ever have. And it's redefining my perspective on love. .-= Doniree´s last blog ..2 Legit [Lijit] 2 Quit (hey…hey…) =-.