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	<title>Comments on: Love Happens – If You Let It</title>
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		<title>By: Elisa Doucette</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1658</link>
		<dc:creator>Elisa Doucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay - welcome to my blog if only for a post!

And I totally agree with your assessment, thus why I asked the beautiful Ms. Blake to write me a little ditty.  I think the post and her following post on her own blog show yet another piece of the puzzle of why she&#039;s gonna make someone a lucky lucky man one day.

In the meantime, it&#039;s all the more cupcakes and charts and wonderful for us.  :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay &#8211; welcome to my blog if only for a post!</p>
<p>And I totally agree with your assessment, thus why I asked the beautiful Ms. Blake to write me a little ditty.  I think the post and her following post on her own blog show yet another piece of the puzzle of why she&#8217;s gonna make someone a lucky lucky man one day.</p>
<p>In the meantime, it&#8217;s all the more cupcakes and charts and wonderful for us.  <img src='http://www.opheliaswebb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Elisa Doucette</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1657</link>
		<dc:creator>Elisa Doucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mehnaz - Isn&#039;t it funny how a deep breath and a slow count to 10 can completely change your perspective on things?  Even funnier, the more we let go of the tenuous hold we have on ourselves the more things open up and the more opportunities we have.  It&#039;s like those chinese finger trap things we used to play with as kids.  Impossible to get out of when you struggled and pulled it tight but loosen the grip and relax and you&#039;re free!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mehnaz &#8211; Isn&#8217;t it funny how a deep breath and a slow count to 10 can completely change your perspective on things?  Even funnier, the more we let go of the tenuous hold we have on ourselves the more things open up and the more opportunities we have.  It&#8217;s like those chinese finger trap things we used to play with as kids.  Impossible to get out of when you struggled and pulled it tight but loosen the grip and relax and you&#8217;re free!</p>
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		<title>By: Rich DeMatteo</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1630</link>
		<dc:creator>Rich DeMatteo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jenny @Elisa - The simplest things are often the most difficult to understand for sure.  While I preach what I just said, I should probably start practicing it sooner or later!
.-= Rich DeMatteo´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.cornonthejob.com/career-advice/salary-career-advice/3-things-to-remember-before-asking-for-a-pay-hike/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;3 Things to Remember Before Asking For a Pay Hike&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jenny @Elisa &#8211; The simplest things are often the most difficult to understand for sure.  While I preach what I just said, I should probably start practicing it sooner or later!<br />
.-= Rich DeMatteo´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.cornonthejob.com/career-advice/salary-career-advice/3-things-to-remember-before-asking-for-a-pay-hike/" rel="nofollow">3 Things to Remember Before Asking For a Pay Hike</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Elisa Doucette</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1593</link>
		<dc:creator>Elisa Doucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 00:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy - What friends and family teach up about love is even more sometimes than the relationships we cross into and out of in life.  Those are the relationships that we cling to ESPECIALLY out of love.  That we&#039;ll persevere through purely because of love.

Sure, there are situations where friends and family become just as toxic and we&#039;ll leave them behind or phase them out of our lives, but the breaking point is so much higher.  It teaches us quite a few things about unconditional love too...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy &#8211; What friends and family teach up about love is even more sometimes than the relationships we cross into and out of in life.  Those are the relationships that we cling to ESPECIALLY out of love.  That we&#8217;ll persevere through purely because of love.</p>
<p>Sure, there are situations where friends and family become just as toxic and we&#8217;ll leave them behind or phase them out of our lives, but the breaking point is so much higher.  It teaches us quite a few things about unconditional love too&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: A Note on Sadness: Cloudy with a Chance of Sunshine &#171; Life After College by Jenny Blake</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Note on Sadness: Cloudy with a Chance of Sunshine &#171; Life After College by Jenny Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] part of my year of love, I promised myself I would be more vulnerable. In life AND on this blog. As much as it scares me, I [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] part of my year of love, I promised myself I would be more vulnerable. In life AND on this blog. As much as it scares me, I [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny Blake</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1550</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 18:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sam - thanks so much for stopping by - and for the wise words. I agree - one of the most important things we can do is just let life happen. The universe has a plan, there is no point in rushing it :D
.-= Jenny Blake´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/blog/2010/02/03/yes-its-true-i-blogged-about-love/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Yes It’s True…I Blogged About Love&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam &#8211; thanks so much for stopping by &#8211; and for the wise words. I agree &#8211; one of the most important things we can do is just let life happen. The universe has a plan, there is no point in rushing it <img src='http://www.opheliaswebb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Jenny Blake´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/blog/2010/02/03/yes-its-true-i-blogged-about-love/" rel="nofollow">Yes It’s True…I Blogged About Love</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny Blake</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1549</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny Blake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 18:31:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aw, what on EARTH would I do without you?! Seriously. Live up in the trees, that&#039;s what. So fun that you stopped by and commented - worlds collide! :D LOVE YOU!!!
.-= Jenny Blake´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/blog/2010/02/03/yes-its-true-i-blogged-about-love/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Yes It’s True…I Blogged About Love&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw, what on EARTH would I do without you?! Seriously. Live up in the trees, that&#8217;s what. So fun that you stopped by and commented &#8211; worlds collide! <img src='http://www.opheliaswebb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  LOVE YOU!!!<br />
.-= Jenny Blake´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.lifeaftercollege.org/blog/2010/02/03/yes-its-true-i-blogged-about-love/" rel="nofollow">Yes It’s True…I Blogged About Love</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: TAllegra</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1548</link>
		<dc:creator>TAllegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 18:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As the &quot;friend&quot; you asked that question of, I just wanted to say: Ms. Jenny, you know A LOT about love. 

With love and continual awe,
T</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As the &#8220;friend&#8221; you asked that question of, I just wanted to say: Ms. Jenny, you know A LOT about love. </p>
<p>With love and continual awe,<br />
T</p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well I think you&#039;re brave for opening yourself to unknown emotions. Don&#039;t ever be scared of what you feel and what you know. If balanced correctly they can work to make your life wonderful. And if you are lucky enough you have those family members and friends to remind you which part is unbalanced and how to fix it :) It&#039;s always ok to ask for help, even in love!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I think you&#8217;re brave for opening yourself to unknown emotions. Don&#8217;t ever be scared of what you feel and what you know. If balanced correctly they can work to make your life wonderful. And if you are lucky enough you have those family members and friends to remind you which part is unbalanced and how to fix it <img src='http://www.opheliaswebb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  It&#8217;s always ok to ask for help, even in love!</p>
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		<title>By: Elisa Doucette</title>
		<link>http://www.opheliaswebb.com/2010/02/love-happens-if-you-let-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1526</link>
		<dc:creator>Elisa Doucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 03:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rich - So simple and true.  Isn&#039;t it funny how the simplest things are sometimes the hardest to understand and believe?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rich &#8211; So simple and true.  Isn&#8217;t it funny how the simplest things are sometimes the hardest to understand and believe?!</p>
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