When Peace Like A River
Music has a way of speaking to our hearts in ways which our mind can never understand. It can make us remember, help us to forget, make us smile and make us cry all in one song. For me, when I visit my parents’ church, that song is “It Is Well With My Soul.”
This song moves me so much because it reminds me of one of the women who taught me about who I want to be as a person. And she sang this song in church when I was still a teenager as a way of letting all the parishioners know that she had found a peace within the fact that she was going to die from colon cancer.
When peace like a river attendeth my way
When sorrows like sea billows roll
Whatever my lot – Thou has taught me to say
It is well – it is well
With My Soul
Three out of four of my grandparents died either before I was born or while I was very young. So when my parents signed me up for piano lessons with our pastor’s wife, Arlene Hamilton, I attached (probably a little unhealthily) to her. She taught me not only scales and sonatas, but she instilled in me an appreciation and love for music.
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Beyond the music, Mrs. Hamilton taught me so much more.
Many people in a church will think they are examples of what a “Good Christian” should be because they go to church on Sundays and read the Bible on Tuesdays. They forget the basic foundations of the religion they so fastidiously cling to.
Mrs. Hamilton wasn’t like that though. Rather than quoting scriptures constantly or using the teaching against people she was one of those people who lived her life the way that everyone else claimed they did.
She taught me that unconditional love is the greatest force in the world.
She taught me that hard work will pay off in the end.
She taught me to appreciate the beauty in the world, not only when there was music playing.
She taught me to laugh at myself and enjoy the company of others.
She taught me to trust in the destiny of life, that things fell into place as they were always supposed to.
She taught me so much more than I could ever put into words on this simple little blog.
She was an amazing example to have as a young woman, a life to aspire to. And she was taken from me far too early. Cancer not only took over her body but it took over our hearts. Everyone who loved her. In fact most everyone she met.
Since I got involved with Relay for Life a few years ago I have walked in her memory. I would walk around that track for days until I collapsed if I could just have one day back with her, sitting on the sun porch playing my scales and talking to her. But I can’t.
However with the monies raised by things like Relay for Life maybe…just maybe…we will one day find a cure. Because we keep losing too many good people.
And one day another little girl who has a Mrs. Hamilton in her life won’t have to sob every time she hears a song that reminds her of what she has lost.
You can visit my American Cancer Society Relay for Life page here. Thank you in advance for even taking the time to look it over and consider finding $10 in your budget this month. Together we WILL kick cancer’s ass. We CANNOT let it win.
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